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I have private thoughts about the photo of Diana and her friend, an image that contains and reflects a very emotional moment and yet so natural ...
is indeed the time when Diana was last seen, and to say goodbye, "with Shamira, one of her friends in Ustka, a friend of the boys' home where the host and I know I came with expectations of improvement.
For her the center that was a cozy place to wait for him to seek some parents.
while and I've spent time looking at that picture, and at that time because they tell me many things, I talk about when we went to pick it up: the rush that got us to do something as important as leaving behind all the short, but intense past my daughter, that moment happened so fast but it was so important and I talk about my daughter's relationship with the orphanage.
arrived to pick up our children because of airport delays and setbacks on a Saturday afternoon, in the shelters of Ust just did not work on non-management employees, "there nonetheless we waiting for the director (Russian) and psychologist (Kazakh).
Contrary to the custom established there, we did not give gifts, because in principle we are opposed to this practice, so widespread and no one required them and treated us with love and respect and I have pictures of when Diana said goodbye, we say goodbye - of them in the principal's office, which had tried on several occasions and we treat Diana and witnessed our daughter relationship was established with them, "Diana always loving, always caring, and the farewell, not was nothing cold, I could see in them signs of true affection and tears mixed with joy and sorrow for the departure of Diana.

That was good people, genuine people, that is the impression I gave in general the inhabitants of that city we live in a month. Free people, and willing to help with the feelings inherent in human beings fairly intact.
It is true that I have News compromise and abuse, but apart from cost overruns and charges, we had no more problems in this country that we wanted to create "free" visa chief of bureau of the English Embassy in Astana, and was not Kazakh, English era (post January 2010 "Nightmare Before Christmas").
Continuing the theme, the center was home to Diana was like a school without classes, the children were aged between 5 and eight years, living in groups are not very many independent modules were all the time by caretakers, not teachers, and I make this remark because Diana did not distinguish or letters or numbers (the alphabet was different but this was not the reason) did not know, for example, to count beyond the fingers. Nobody taught him to read or write, and in just over a year and although English reads logical difficulty, your reading comprehension is quite good and is learning along with their classmates to divide. Interestingly
what it's costing more is the subject of "environmental awareness" because his knowledge in this regard had been limited: for it is difficult to understand the difference between village, town or country, to name a few.

The system in which they lived was closed so that just needed to wear protective neurons were not encouraged to take initiative and follow the routines of discipline were all that had to do there children.
The facilities were simple but practical and television had much in the game room of each module and in the bedroom, where films and children's programs were not only Russians or Kazakhs also others such as Pinocchio or srek, to name a few. That was an old building but clean and warm and well maintained inside.

This center treated us like parents from the zero point, allowed us to get the girl in the morning to go to the nursery to see Nacho every day of the week and then in the afternoon, we had not seen Nacho, we left the room to be big games Diana and the children of our group of English adoptive parents together and even when Evelyn, "a English-mothers returned to Spain a couple of days before us, let their son Nikita Diana came down to play with us.
The atmosphere was very "school" and the director was very friendly and it all emanated kindness. I remember one day, leaving Diana at its center, looking back I saw that once again left the building and was crying, we stopped the driver and explained that Diana was not to your group, so I accompanied her around the center without success and ended up in the principal's office, which saw her welcomed mourn the concern, 'and then soothed -and me-embracing and explaining that his group had gone module off campus for a walk and stayed with the girl, so quiet and we left a good impression of this woman.
What we saw was downright affectionate treatment at all fictional, and this was extended to the rest of the school staff because when we were invited to attend along with Kazakh authorities, the "Autumn Festival", we see how the children participated in games that spontaneously proposed and the attitude of all their caregivers was relaxed and confident.

often think to see those pictures and watch the way my daughter is related to other children, that children were treated there with an attachment other than the ones here expressed by his friends touched in different ways, there is hugged, sat close together and looked at without fear, maybe the same as us for 30 or 40 years?. There also
children developed bonds of brotherhood. I remember my daughter kept some of the goodies that sometimes we had a snack, and then share them with friends until we realized this and also compared it to them. And his birthday children fondly embraced Diana either, lovingly and without affectation.

At this point my children are affectionate with their customs, Nacho is about the little children and I stroked his head and if an adult-known or not she likes him and throws his arms or press it lovingly embraces his leg-and almost most cases these events caught by surprise young and old.
do not know what or who to blame, but that with the advancement and development of so-called "civilizations", you lose many things, including the simplicity, naturalness of the treatment staff at all levels.

are denatured openness and spontaneity of interpersonal relationships to the child, and I mean the essence of these relationships.

Now we kiss strangers newly presented and we tuteamos with old ladies and gentlemen, we believe most social socializing, but we locked eyes and we shook hands warmly, and if we know about our neighbors and we have difficulty really feel sheltered and heard on more personal issues without feeling judged even with the closest members of our family .

One day you stop to look around and you realize that in fact our relations which it engaged with our people, which we-are actually superficial relationships and that even among us we are all for all intimate strangers.
And the sad thing is that this debases the heart and calloused skin, loneliness now is alone in the company and gradually we become frivolous and pointless because in the rush and the problems and new ways of life in microcosm particular, mean that we are losing many deep emotions and many hugs.