Tuesday, December 21, 2010

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I will be a romantic but I've always liked Christmas, although early on at home had to be divided how and with whom he celebrated Christmas Eve and Eve, but with the lights turned on me and yet I still turn on the Christmas spirit, I miss you so much for that I need, I have wanted to hug and congratulate the people seemed nice, I cry with the announcement of nougat "The Almond" (the song touches me especially a chord) and my memory fails to recall memory after memory of moments "Coca-Cola" of those perfect in your life seems a notice.
After years in which the concerns and / or the burdens have not left us to enjoy Christmas ... or almost anything, this year my family would make many of those moments that I had almost I saw them in sepia! May this Christmas be with everything and everyone a special time, that if only because it's Christmas, we become a little more friendly and affectionate, and less acidic and selfish. Who knows if we ever take a taste and prolong the rest of the year?
Consider the mirror ... the others almost always smile back.
Well there goes my desire, my own and my family.
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With all our love.

Monday, December 13, 2010

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romantic and traditional Emotional Intelligence in adopted children.

On Saturday we went to Granada in a workshop on emotional intelligence (EI) applied to adoption AFAM association organized in collaboration with the Obra Social Caja Granada, which gave Marina Pons Vidal , a psychologist and technical assessment of adoption for two and a half hours were short, "rather low.
Under the slogan "WE ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR THE EMOTIONS, BUT OF WHAT WE DO WITH THEM."
was making contact with the concept of emotional intelligence, a make known what it is and what it does.
is about having or enhance the ability to identify and understand our emotions and those of others, and get the skill to handle them.
Something that seems simple, that is all we had if not born with it, if you develop it as we were growing at an intuitive or "seized" of our elders, that "Tribe" educator every day is less robust and more tentative, as it is increasingly difficult for our children and ourselves we are able to apply to "monetize" what we feel, and always feel , with everything and everybody all the time But ... we know that we do, what we cause in others? .
IE appears to talk about feelings in commercial terms but is about learning to inventory our feelings, to recognize and classify our emotions and to cope with or adapt to situations that we face with them on a regular basis so that, being more aware of what different situations cause us, we are able to respond ever more appropriate in the circumstances.
not easy, think of something that annoys us to systematically and how much we dislike the wrath or anger take hold of us, make us their prey and can not react in a calm and rational. Sometimes they do not recognize ourselves in situations such as driving, or when we think we are "usurping" a privilege, something or benefit that we believe belongs to us "right." More or less it would be to recognize these emotions as violent or stun or whatever that trigger in us and quantify and dosed not to take over us and prevent us from handling any situation more adequately. With what we will feel better by being able to manage our emotions and not be handled by them and all this transmitted to our children to learn to do so. (There is Nothing) name Unaware that he took home all my life trying to do, especially in regard to visceral emotion, but when I think I've shown I have ever gotten any new situation thus putting paid to my feeling of improvement.
Maybe that's why I worry more about being able to transmit to my children. Worse still the fact that since they have also reached has been ruined my harmony, and the person-centered as he thought he had become.
Now my emotions are overflowing every day, sometimes positively and sometimes contrary, I am moved with her things or I get upset and angry and have turned my life on a carousel ... well more on a rollercoaster of emotions .

suppose that adaptation is for everyone and since then I have to work my own IE to get what we proposed at the workshop.

My mother often said that children come into the world with five senses and that of the parents depends also endow them common sense and they developed a sense of humor. I also said very often that I had to tame my impetuous and passionate character ... She knew forty years ago and knew the subject but not call it.
And if you think a little more, it is nothing and nothing less, of feelings, emotions, reacting with more or less spontaneous ... this is primary and basic but we so quickly and are less concerned with urgent things every day that someone needs to bring us together in a classroom, a Saturday afternoon in December and we explain all these things that belong to our privacy, emotions and feelings are intrinsic to our children and ourselves so personal but which do not pay attention. Loreto and Marina
Thanks for doing it.

Saturday, November 20, 2010

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November, a month of events.

began in November, the month of remembrance for those who are not with us and not give way to melancholy sadness, began the celebrations:
first birthday of our friends and Adolfina Ayana, who became a gathering of friends at a nice picnic, intimate meetings with parents and children and managed to involve the children so that he prepared pizzas then we ate children and adults and made for the occasion a cake that is one of the richest I've had in my life. That day we shared a little bit further with other parents known of other meetings and again see and embrace many of our "family by adoption," fellow-sufferers match adoptive courses and spend special time with Emelina, raw Adolfina with which it is very united and that led us to give pleasant walk to his house to meet his mother. It's more cozy and intimate family in the world! All of them made possible a day of games and great gathering in which we were very very comfortable.

Three days later, Diana celebrated her eighth birthday, if all birthdays are important this seemed to us even more because it was her first birthday in Spain and probably the first one celebrated case in his short life.

Last year in Ust-Kamenogorsk had gifts for us, but we had a day early because our flight back to Spain was just the day of his birthday. So we celebrated in a small pizzeria in a town near our home with laughter, games and pizza ...


We celebrate and L Tuesday because last Saturday was the feast of Ayana and following the wedding of my younger brother. We shared an evening of celebration with a few friends, fewer than we would have liked, but as "the week" many could not attend, of which we remember a lot, and we know it had failed, for example Evelyn and Nikita business day if not, if unable to attend and join a very special event: Adolfina, Teresa, Noel's mother, Paco and Rosa, Our beloved daughter Sandra and Adriana ...
Children could come up, played up gorging on one of those small parks full of colorful balls, slides and swings quilting. It went so well that the scheduled time even lasted an hour and parents the time we flew, including conversation, laughter and secrets. It always does the magic of flight time and when it is comfortable.

Preparations.

Prepare a family wedding is always tricky, but just try to dress the house, and take care of details or particulars without much importance but who would put such a load of affection for it become transcendental. We really wanted this wedding party that had been infected by the illusion that they put the couple, we wanted everything to go well and everyone in our family put our small contribution in the field that we played, the perfect car and about, children lead the pledge and super cute rings ... and this is where we had more complicated, Diana is too big for their newly released 8 years and find a dress size 12 for the times it is challenging, which were appropriate for their age were in only small sizes (as much to 10) and their size seemed more suited for a concert to Hannah Montana, to deliver a deposit.


Fifteen days before the celebration even though we did not dress and the problem was to find a seamstress who made the dress with no pattern that I thought was a reasonable price (keep in mind that the pace is our children grow in a month clothing no longer serves you and this would be a dress to be worn securely on this one occasion) I searched online for brands, stores and nothing ... so I pulled down the street environment and went into a website ( http://www.gamgam.es/ ) where clothes that fit offered much to the idea that I had made from their employers can choose among models, fabrics and colors.


I contacted via email, gave me money and I expressed concern about the short time we gave them to do so if he accepted the budget. The dress came to a reasonable price, was what I wanted and the price much more affordable than what I had seen in stores, where neither size was not quite like the models, so I chose the fabrics, (since I had very clear model) I sent the measures called me and entered in your account half of the money they asked me and sent me the promised day via MRW dress, I paid the other half and well ... I've been so excited about its seriousness and the result I've decided to add your page to my favorites.

Then came Saturday ...


Defying the fate and my brother and his wife chose the day 13 to 13 hours to seal a compromise had already served more than 25 years. Oh the poor! the jokes that have had to endure, "that if it looks that you have thought" ... "if you walk that you have been quick" ... well, jokes all for a relaxed, full of love, full of people who wanted and free of bad vibes.
The day dawned bright, the famous sun always said he spends his winters in this city that welcomes us and takes up, looked in all its brilliance and no "spark" of wind (as they say here).

were all nerves at home and rush to the exact time of reaching the Plaza Vieja and meet with the bride's family and friends of both, as always, those of lifetime, none wanted to miss the accompanying my brother and his wife in a time now so important. Then soon came the bride and godmother to my brother more and my sister Elena, all gorgeous for the event. Nacho just saw my older brother came running into his arms. And then the bride wrapped in silk and moire with the godfather and the photographer, driver and father of my children.
We also met with Mary Muniz, who was the one who officiate the ceremony and we thank you so make a formal act a little less dry and it allowed our dear friend would say a few simple words but exciting.
Elena, our very dear friend, whom we met through our mother for over thirty years and is an important part Our family came from Zaragoza and from there took care of the details of the ceremony from the pad to the rings (which carefully prepared his sister Carmina), prepare and edit a tabloid beautiful reminder of the moment, put music to the event, and as I say, with tremendous simplicity, and beautiful voice of announcer reciting a little poem, and to present to our loved ones, we are no longer with us.


The poem read:
"Love is not a partner
which took
or that promise to have,
if not every morning that makes them choose to be
together.
is one for which
help each other.
is the one that makes them grow as individuals and

and as a couple.
is one that encourages them to be happy
each other.
is the love that decide
every day, sharing life. "


Then Elena helped Diana to say in an emotional Kazakh" live the bride and groom, "which brought well prepared, does not miss a detail ...

The act and turned out more memorable if we add the stories of a Nachete who refused to give the cushion with the rings that had been committed and restless but remained attentive to the bottom of table holding further distending solemn atmosphere often have these moments, one of his jokes was the entertainment in rolling his Bow Ties and drop as if it were a party blowers, all of it highly concentrated in The ceremony, which was the most comical.

After the wedding kiss, and after hugs of congratulations, congratulations, photos with the bride and groom, family and friends and the constant antics Nacho, went to the banquet, which began with a welcome drink and snacks accompanied by delicious canapés, you could tell que los invitados se encontraban cómodos, no éramos muchos, cincuenta personas entre familiares y amigos, bebiendo, comiendo, charlando y riendo entre si, los niños corriendo y haciendo peligrar a los camareros que con destreza les sorteaban. Diana que no paraba de picar creo que lo probó todo y hasta Nacho se cameló a un camarero para que cada vez que pasara por su lado le bajara a su altura los canapés y así poder participar en el ágape.
Luego la comida, servida en un acogedor comedor en el que dispusieron varias mesas redondas donde teníamos cada cuál asignado nuestra mesa y nuestro sitio y como quiera que en el buen criterio en colocar a los invitados reside una parte importante del éxito de estos banquetes, each guest was seated and served so that the good atmosphere prevailed during the entire celebration.

ate phenomenal, almost gargantuan-chat, share and laugh, there were details for all and then after the wedding cake was very rich and raised tables, tablecloths faded, but cheered the couple arrived on time open bar and free and "glamor" of the first children and adults dance without fear of ridicule from the kasachok Yenka, through-and non-Aserejé and the Macarena and music eighties, salsa, merengue, and here be encouraged, only a few steps-up the groom. we had!

was a day full of joy and full of love. Seeing my little brother and his wife happy happy her parents proud, to share this with those closest to us, our children so adapted and receiving so many tokens of love from everyone and see everyone happy, made it for me one of the happiest days of my life. One of those perfect days that are great because you live and share from the deepest affection.
was an important day a new family consolidated, two families were one and the same time was the "public presentation" of Diana and Nacho, our children, who got a warm and caring welcome.

The Anniversary.
And the ultimate celebration of the November events and that Edward and I decided to trip a second time on the altar of marriage November 19 five years ago, brought no children, but both had looking forward to starting a family.

In 2005 that Diana had already been two years in the world and Nacho born two years later, when we had a year of bureaucratic intricacies collecting papers, certificates, qualifications and tests to overcome to develop a record that eventually go to China ... Curiously, in November of that 2007 it decided to open a second file for Kazakhstan, records that still take two years and many events before that was resolved.

was last November when a judge finally Ust-Kamenogorsk, the highest court in the world, grant us our children's paternity.

Month for November full of memories to which we add many more things to celebrate. Prelude in December, another month of celebrations and memories. We have spent the years before our children yearning for a future with them, chasing health, escaping from these uncertain and unfortunate, looking for ways to escape adversity with the impulse that gave us the common dream of building our future. A future is already here.
Now I live the present, learn to put aside, whenever possible, the urgency to focus on what's important.



Now that days of this month for us, the special month of the year, "be running again, I want to learn to enjoy her routine of little things the little moments that will not only stand back and ponder-if need-from November to November.